Let it go

This one’s a little deep—so buckle up.

I’ve let go of people who no longer aligned with my way of thinking. It wasn’t personal; I just didn’t have the space, time, or energy for them anymore. How did I do this? I stopped feeding them my energy. Every time they crossed my mind, I’d send them a silent “best wishes” on their journey—just not in my orbit. Occasionally, I’d even pretend they didn’t exist. It wasn’t out of malice; it was just that I’d already given them enough of my mental and emotional bandwidth, and it was time to hit “unfollow” on their presence in my life.

Over time, this approach worked. I removed about ten people—intentionally and with purpose. Now, if you know anything about manifesting, the how isn’t really the point, but here’s what happened for me: some got exciting opportunities and moved on to other places (and yes, I’m genuinely happy for them). Timing didn’t matter much either. For some, it took a few weeks; for others, a few months. One person clung on for almost a year, but once I stopped letting their presence affect me, things started to shift. Behind the scenes, “the bridge of incidents” was at work, setting things in motion from the moment I intended to let them go.

And if you’re trying to manifest a specific person and there’s a third-party situation, you can use this approach too (though I haven’t tried it myself). Just don’t go wishing anyone ill, no matter how much grief they may have caused you—it’s not worth it, and it won’t make you feel better. That’s why healing work is so important: it helps you move past the hurt and find forgiveness. Because honestly, holding onto resentment is far heavier than just letting it go.

Well, hello there!

I’ve manifested people into my life too, so I can confidently say this works both ways. This one’s a little strange though— it’s usually been people I simply wanted to meet, even though, logically, our paths shouldn’t have crossed. But, as they say, “It’s a small world!” (Or maybe the universe just loves proving that point.)